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"Relatives"???

EBEBRATT-Ed
EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588
edited December 23 in THE MAIN WALL

This guy isn't my relative but is my Girl Friends relative. So, I've got sucked into looking at his steamer ….again. I hate doing anything for this guy because it's like pulling teeth to get money out of him even for parts.

46 year old Dunkirk boiler oil fired Beckett AF with a tankless. In the past 8 years or so I have replaced the gauge glass and gg valves 1 trip, cleaned out a plugged pigtail 1 trip, replace the pressure control 1 trip and he tried to replace the cad cell control himself after he screwed up the wiring, I had to go fix that.

Now his house is falling apart. They fix nothing unless it breaks completely. They had mold issues because the roof leaked so bad, but they waited 10 years too late to fix that.

It's actually a rugged little boiler and if it had any maintenance, it would probably run forever but like many he buys oil from the cheapest place in town with no service dept. I have bitched him out for that already.

So you get the idea. They are constantly going on trips to FLA, cruises etc they both work so they got some money coming in, have 2 new cars and a huge flat screen TV…..you got the picture?

got a 550 underground tank and the boiler piping is all wrong, no header and no Hartford but the thing runs as quiet as a mouse and heats well…..go figure. Piping all covered in asbestos

Back when I was actually working, I said "lets rip this out and go to gas your going to have to deal with the oil tank someday, it will cost more the longer you wait". He said " the gas is in the street, but my wife is scared of gas.

Get this, when she needs gas put in her car, she has him take it to the gas station and fill it she won't do it.

So now it's Christmas and the outdoor temp here is 9 degrees. The wife has cats (which I am allergic to and can't stand) so they went to FLA…again for Xmas and to go on a cruise for their 40th anniversary. She has a woman that goes over to feed the cats and checks the boiler.

Today there calling me because there is no heat and the boiler is flooded. T stat set at 70 but the house was 48. The cat survived.

I never had this issue before. I checked the hand valve that feeds the boiler thinking the cat lady over filled it or didn't close the globe valve tight, but it was shut tight.

So I said well either the tankless coil has a hole in it or the hand valve is leaking by. So I started draining. There was so much water in the system the burner was off on pressure.

No place to drain water in the basement so I lugged 25 gallons up the cellar stairs before the water showed up in the sight glass. But the sight glass filled up fast, I drained again, and it filled up fast, I drained it again and it filled some but started to slow down. So, now I am scratching my head.

So the burner came on when the pressure dropped. Since they are not home anyhow, I valved off the tankless. Watched it run for a while and left.

Then after I got home and was trying to get to sleep I figured part of it out.

I suspect the two returns that drop down and ty together before going in the boiler are filled with sludge. When I drained the boiler to the sight glass level, and it refilled a couple of times it was water in the over filled returns seeping through the sludge. The returns are overhead.

But that does not explain the original flooding. Have to go back tomorrow and check. If it is gaining water the hand valve is leaking by because I shut the tankless off.

If it's the tankless is the issue I will suggest abandoning it, I am sure the bolts will never come out and that's not a winter job on a 46 yo boiler. Cap the tankless pipes and put in an electric water heater to get by till summer……..But summer of what year??

I am not going to do a tankless coil, a water heater or the boiler…..I'm done.

Sorry for the rant but I couldn't sleep.

Mad Dog_2PC7060HVACNUTGGrossLarry WeingartenEdTheHeaterManLRCCBJmattmia2ethicalpaulSuperTechDan Foley

Comments

  • Mad Dog_2
    Mad Dog_2 Member Posts: 7,540

    I feel ya Ed! I know the kind..run everything to failure...Pleasure first...They're extremely lucky to have you, but Stop feeling obligated. I had to tell my super handy father in law's (80) neighbors to "PLEASE CALL SOMEONE ELSE...HE'S RETIRED MANY YEARS NOW!"

    Opa just can't say no himself and works for FREE for neighbors and most took full advantage of him. Don't feel funny..time they put some Whoopie $$$ in to the important stuff, like Their heat....especially in the winter! (Ed Holohan). Mad Dog

    PC7060Intplm.EBEBRATT-EdLong Beach Ed
  • hot_rod
    hot_rod Member Posts: 23,507

    The Christmas spirit, atta boy!

    Bob "hot rod" Rohr
    trainer for Caleffi NA
    Living the hydronic dream
    EBEBRATT-EdEdTheHeaterMan
  • Intplm.
    Intplm. Member Posts: 2,217

    Uhhg!

    Yup. You got the thing diagnosed. Now it's up to them to act on their own behalf.

    I had a few similar situations and finally had to tell them that I'm not in the business any longer and do not have the resources to help.

    I'll never forget what one of my Voc. ed instructors said some 45+ years ago.

    He said the worst people to work for are our friends and relatives. It's not always true but it is in this situation.

    Ed… you're a damn good man to help out as much as you have. Add some self-preservation in for good measure.

    Mad Dog_2Larry WeingartenLRCCBJLong Beach Ed
  • CoachBoilermaker
    CoachBoilermaker Member Posts: 348

    T'Stat set for 70 while they're away for weeks ????????

    How did they know about flood/cold if they are away?

    A huge flat screen TV is $600

  • PC7060
    PC7060 Member Posts: 1,468

    I provide a “driveway” warranty that expires when I leave. Also learned to include the disclaimer I borrowed from CX at johnbridge tile site.
    “My opinion; worth price charged.”

    SlamDunk
  • HVACNUT
    HVACNUT Member Posts: 6,373

    You're a better man than me. I live on a dead end street, 18 houses. Within a year of moving in I was doing free service for 7 houses for oil heat and AC. I would work in hints about getting a service agreement, but it always fell on deaf ears. They drive past me every day and see I'm my own landscaper, gardner, car washer, appliance installer, etc. I've got my own problems to deal with. My neighbor directly across the street runs out of oil constantly, and would call or text with questions, when he wanted action from me. I finally said it takes all my energy to do what I need to do for me and my family, anything left over goes to having to wake up the next day and do it all over again. I didn't mind the first 3 or 4 times, but I can't be responsible for someone else's lack of responsibility. Kudos to you, Ed, for your patience and fortitude.

    Mad Dog_2Intplm.
  • Larry Weingarten
    Larry Weingarten Member Posts: 3,611

    Hi @EBEBRATT-Ed , There is a Garrett Gunderson, who gives people one of two titles. They are either producers or consumers. You clearly are a producer. Need I say more? 😉

    Yours, Larry

    LRCCBJLong Beach EdIntplm.
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    Thanks for all the great comments.

    My GF went over this morning and the water level was about 1/4" low in the glass. Being 48 in the house last night and 9 outside degrees here it probably ran hard most of the night and I am sure they probably got some vents/packings wisping. I know he adds water every few days when it's cold so the this thing is on borrowed time.

    Left the tankless coil valved off don't know it that is leaking by or the cat lady over filled it???? He can deal with it when he gets home . I am out.

    @Maddog "stop feeling obligated" TRUTH but after 46 years it's tough to let go, but this is the last straw.

    @LRCCBJ LOL good advice

    @SlamDunk Yes we all have been there, I could use some points!!

    @hot_rod Christmass spirit? More like Ebenezer Scrouge LOL!!

    @Intplm. Yes I heard the same admonishment in school 52 years ago!!! Also No lawyers, Drs., friends or relatives. The better the deal you give them the harder you get screwed

    @CoachBoilermaker Cat lady called/texted the homeowner and they texted from the ship to my GF. T stat set 70, gotta take care of the cats!!

    @PC7060 No warranty!!! In fact I was never there LOL

    @HVACNUT Yeah, Thankfully I have gotten away from most everything

    Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated

    Hope everyone has a Merry Christmas.

    PC7060HVACNUTMad Dog_2Intplm.
  • ChrisJ
    ChrisJ Member Posts: 16,323
    edited December 23

    "Huge flat screen tv"

    24 years ago that meant something.

    Now it can mean as little as $150.

     He said " the gas is in the street, but my wife is scared of gas.

    Get this, when she needs gas put in her car, she has him take it to the gas station and fill it she won't do it.

    Oh good grief………….. Yeah, Run away. You don't need that kind of stuff in your life.

    Single pipe 392sqft system with an EG-40 rated for 325sqft and it's silent and balanced at all times.

    Long Beach EdMad Dog_2
  • EdTheHeaterMan
    EdTheHeaterMan Member Posts: 9,526
    edited December 23

    After looking at this, I feel compelled to offer this information for the upcoming holiday.

    @EBEBRATT-Ed said: This guy isn't my relative but is my Girl Friends relative.

    …might be time for a new girlfriend. 🤣

    Edward Young Retired

    After you make that expensive repair and you still have the same problem, What will you check next?

    ratioMad Dog_2RTWIntplm.
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    @EdTheHeaterMan

    No, can't do that we have been together 16 years. But I am done with her brother-in-law and sister. They have all kinds of money to spend on trips they go to FLA about 6 times a year (daughter is there). But their house is falling apart, and they have a swimming pool.

    Also, the only time we hear from them is when they need something. It's a one-way street with them. Now I'm getting all cranked up thinking about it again.

    Sad thing is the old Dunkirk is 46 years old and still going. It probably could be cleaned up and fixed up. If it was my own, I would keep it but I am not getting involved. They don't listen.

    So I figure anyone else goes in their it will be a new boiler, indirect and new indoor oil tank and remediate the asbestos. Remove the old 550-gallon underground tank. Should be good for 20k probably a lot more. That should cut down on the FLA vacations. I don't know the EDR but the smallest steamer will do it.

    Mad Dog_2Intplm.
  • SlamDunk
    SlamDunk Member Posts: 1,683
    edited December 23

    Just tell 'em you hurt your back. Back pain can take weeks or months to resolve.

    If they dont live in the neighborhood, the next time they call, your gf needs to say "he is at the doctors' getting back x-rays". Should be easy to pull off without hurting feelings.

    "Ok Thanks" is weak.

    LRCCBJEBEBRATT-EdMad Dog_2Long Beach Ed
  • neilc
    neilc Member Posts: 2,868

    count your hours and bill em current rate, tape the invoice to the tv, or the fridge and take the tv, superbowl is coming,

    known to beat dead horses
    Mad Dog_2
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    @SlamDunk it is weak. I don't want my a__K______ but he is ridiculous.

    @Larry Weingarten never thought I was the best. There are plenty that can run circles around me. Worked hard at it though….maybe too hard that's why I am a mess now. Can't be mistaken for a producer now.

    Mad Dog_2
  • ratio
    ratio Member Posts: 3,803

    I only do work for family & friends now, mostly at-cost or less. I found that once I quit worrying about making money on it, I'm not nearly so p!ssed about doing it—but I don't (yet!) have much mobility issues.

    It's coming, though.

    Still, I do like the feeling of cashing checks that someone else wrote.

    Intplm.
  • Larry Weingarten
    Larry Weingarten Member Posts: 3,611

    Hi @EBEBRATT-Ed , No problem! Here's the book you want. Very much science based. If you like, I'll send you a copy. 😊

    Yours, Larry

    Intplm.
  • HVACNUT
    HVACNUT Member Posts: 6,373

    So driving home last night I got 4 texts. When I got home I saw it was from a guy I haven't seen in at least 15 years. Last I knew, he had an oil fired boiler. Turns out it was 2 Mitco conversion burners ago. Now he bought a Carlin EZ Gas and can't get it running. Phone calls, texts, videos. First Lockout "BV open". He still has the oil draft regulator. 🤪 Jump out BV.

    Next it goes through the full cycle with no ignition. Throttle down air, ignition but not stable and goes out. He says he drilled the orifice for 100K input but mentioned 1/8th. I check the chart and 1/8 is good for 50-75K propane. He has nat gas. I say drill to 7/32 and set the appropriate air. He calls back a half hour later and his family has heat for Christmas. I'm not happy at all with myself for giving advice on starting a burner when I know it's not 100% safe. Of course I told him he needs to install new flue pipe with a double acting draft regulator and spill switch, and have a combustion test done ASAP. He replied with, "So I can adjust the BTU input by turning the screw on the gas valve, right? Do I turn it CW or CCW?" I said, "I gotta go."

    I'm not trying to "one up" you @EBEBRATT-Ed , just saying you're not alone. Have great Holiday!

    PC7060mattmia2Long Beach Ed
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    @Larry Weingarten

    I will pick up that book TY!!

    @HVACNUT 15 years. It's like a life sentence working in this business.

    There was a guy that was a really good customer when I worked at the oil company. He was about 35 miles out of town, but he gave us a lot of work. Always took care of his equipment. He was tough when he called, he wanted someone immediately. On the other hand, when you sent him a bill you would get the check in a couple of days.

    When the oil company closed down, I had my own business and continued working for him. Then after a few years I started working for someone else and lost touch with that customer. I was mostly in the office estimating and running jobs.

    Saw in the newspaper that he passed on. About a year later I came home from work and my wife said a guy was calling for me and insisted on talking with me. Didn't recognize the name but he worked for the customer that had passed on. He said we got burner trouble. At this point it was about 8 years since I had worked for them.

    I said "who has been working on your burners, he said no one. Walter (customer that had passed) told me don't let anyone but Ed touch these burners". So I went out there one Saturday and fixed up both burners that were filthy after 8 years. Then I hooked him up with someone to take over the service. Turns out they had my name and phone # written on the boiler room wall!!

    HVACNUT
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    But back to the "brother-in-law". I forgot about this one.

    He called one cold night while I was asleep. 11:30pm. He had gone down to check the boiler and decided to blow down the LWCO and the valve was so rotted it broke off.

    He goes "I need heat it's cold out" I said "I am not coming over" get some rags and a screwdriver and pound the rags into the tapping in the LWCO and I will be over tomorrow after work. I said fill the boiler up it may drip a little and turn your stat up and heat the house. Don't leave the basement while it is running. Once the house is heated shut the burner off at the switch and go to bed. Tomorrow get up early and do it again before you go to work. He insisted I come over. I said no and hung up.

    The LWCO was and old Watts or something. It's like a MM #767?? the one with the 2 1/2" IPS nipple coming out of the boiler into the side of the LWCO.

    So it had a 1" tapping for the blowdown with a 1 x 3/4 CI bushing in it that broke off flush. No fun laying on my back with a Sawzall and a hammer and a chisel trying to pick the bushing out with water and muck dripping on you. You know how bushings are they just chip away in little pieces. But I got it out and fixed him up. Maybe I got a thanks out of it.

    PC7060mattmia2HVACNUT
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588
  • RTW
    RTW Member Posts: 136

    In response to: "Cat lady called/texted the homeowner and they texted from the ship to my GF. T stat set 70, gotta take care of the cats!!"

    In my view, and Im a cat person, putting the stat at 70 makes about as much sense as keeping the lights on for cats - smh

    Regards,

    RTW

  • GroundUp
    GroundUp Member Posts: 2,141

    Luckily I have not had any big issues with this sort of thing, but I do have a cousin who recently purchased his first home and his father (my uncle, who is a notorious cheapskate) asked me to come by and look the boiler over. I agreed and said I'd get over there next time I was in town, as it wasn't urgent. After day 2, he was mad that I hadn't been there yet. Day 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 he called every morning asking if I was coming today, despite telling him every time I'd call when I was heading into town or I can charge him for a service call. Finally got there and found the poor thing with a bad thermostat, rattling circ, and literally a whole cat inside the burner assembly that had been there for quite some time. I cleaned it out and fired it up, CO was something like 8000 (yes, thousand) PPM so I adjusted that back down and got it ready to go which was about a 4 hour ordeal. I mentioned the rattling circ and bad stat, he told me a week later to go ahead and fix it so I replaced both next time I was in town, and got a "great, thanks". Ummm, sorry but this was not a charity thing. I will eat the cleaning and adjustment just as a housewarming (pun intended) gift, but I will not be eating the $200 in parts and would prefer not to eat that hour of labor either. I got my parts paid for, but very begrudgingly. Noted for next time, I suppose!

    Intplm.
  • Mad Dog_2
    Mad Dog_2 Member Posts: 7,540

    My Greek Grandma in Law used to pay me in cookies & Baclava.....Mad Dog

    mattmia2Long Beach Ed
  • SlamDunk
    SlamDunk Member Posts: 1,683
    edited December 24

    Waaaaaaay better than an "OK Thanks" text! I can feel the love in that sentence way over here.

    Mad Dog_2Intplm.
  • EBEBRATT-Ed
    EBEBRATT-Ed Member Posts: 16,588

    @Groundup

    I just don't understand people like that. in my case I have probably saved him $1000 over the last 8-10 years. I have told him he should by oil from a legit company with a service dept. I am putting my foot down this time.

    I already herd they want to take us out for dinner. No thanks I am not interested. That will only obligate me for future service calls I have had it.

    The apple does not fall too far from the tree. His daughter bought a house in East Hartford about 10 years ago. The first fall they lived there the electric service failed …arcing in in the outdoor combo meter socked/main breaker. They lost 1 leg of the 240. I called the inspector and utility company to remove the seal & got a permit after the fact which he was fine with because of the arcing, and it was an emergency and put in a new meter main a weekend job another emergency job in the middle of winter.

    I only charged her 400 for a job anyone else would have charged her $1000 or more for.

    A few years later they sold the house and needed a couple of GFCI outlets and some minor stuff to pass the house inspection.

    She let me know at the last minute that this stuff needed to be done, and the closing was a few days away. I busted my A— to get this done and she sent me texts and thanked me 20 times. She moved to FLA sent her a bill and never got a dime.

    Never want to see or here from these people again.

    @RTW

    Exactly leave the house set at 70 while gone for a week or 10 days because of the cats and leave the lights on as well. People have their priorities all messed up

    Mad Dog_2
  • LRCCBJ
    LRCCBJ Member Posts: 466
    edited December 24

    I just don't understand people like that.

    I do. The entire world revolves around THEM. Nothing matters other than improving THEIR life. YOU don't matter.

    Sadly, this phenomenon is now pervasive today. Just take a drive in a vehicle. These individuals will kill you to gain a potential two minutes in their trip. I always wanted to ask them what are they going to do with the two minutes. I already know what they are going to do and it involves using their thumb (and putting it somewhere).

    The society has deteriorated markedly over the past 25 years. It's hard to accept.

    BTW, today a meter pan is over $1500.😓

    Mad Dog_2
  • Mad Dog_2
    Mad Dog_2 Member Posts: 7,540

    The ME,ME, ME crowd...Mad Dog

    Intplm.LRCCBJ