Prayers Needed

Uni R_2

I'm very sorry about your loss Mike.

Our hopes and prayers are with you to help give you the strength for getting yourself through this tragic loss and troubling situation.

Darin Cook_5

Mike

You have my deepest sympathies. It is really tough to lose your Dad, whatever the circumstances. I miss and think of my Dad everyday. Think of all the good times and let go of the bad. God bless you.








Darin

Dave Yates (GrandPAH)_1

not alone

Don't isolate yourself & make sure you have a solid support group (in addition to this one!).

Our sympathies on your loss and prayers for continued strength while dealing with the issues.

Larry (from OSHA)

Mike

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and yours. Please know that you and your dad are in my thoughts and many friends are here for you.

Larry

Unknown

so sorry

So sorry to hear about ur loss,Mike may you find peace within your heart and prayers...

Christian Egli_2

Hug the memories

The last one alive surely must feel lost on a desert island, yet we're never alone and the answers come to all the questions we ask. Our fathers stand by our side.

All the painful drama might even prove to be just what's needed as far as understanding all that is happening. Meanwhile, I hope you'll all find peace and acceptance; in spite of the public forum, it all remains a highly personal emotion.

Mike, best wishes for your strength. It's hard.

Mike T., Swampeast MO

THANK YOU ALL!

Very greatly appreciated.

Today has been surreal with every step worse than the next. Went by to get keys and whatever else from his car. High-speed broadside centered between the driver-side doors--nobody on the driver side could have survived so at least he didn't suffer. Bloody 40-D bra with price tag on it in the passenger seat. Found his "to do" list in wallet with "[name's] bra 40D" along with school supplies and "pay [name's] internet" the final item.

Keys didn't work. Literally had to break in (on his decades long and personal friend attorney's advice) to get clothes to bury him. At least I took my mom's artwork--she was quite a good artist--and family pictures as well. Woman causing the problem has a 14-year old daugher and one of the worst things family was thinking was that she was setting him up for some kind of sex-based charge against her daughter--I said "no way". Two bedroom trailer. One bedroom set up as a girls room. Utterly no personal papers etc. He always had a specific cabinet for such and it was nowhere to be found but I wasn't breaking into "the woman's" home...

Attorney finally got hold of their decades long investment counselor. He's very recently cashed in two annuities and talked with her about changing names of other securties to "a woman". She advised him against and told attorney, "I know he's going behind my back."

From attorney: "Were they having sex?" [see original message] "She was their cleaning woman for a little while before your mom died, right?" "She had access..." "I talked with two people who know her and the first words from their mouths were, 'This isn't the first time'".

Went to church (dad was choir member for decades and always volunteering for anything) a bit later and talked to Father. Nearly his first words were "He was such a kind, generous person good to everyone." I'd been strong up till that point, but had to almost rush out and break down.

Mark Hunt

Mike


I know what it is to lose your Dad. Mine went 11 years ago this May. I'll let you know when I am over it.

You are in my prayers Mike.

Mark H

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LarryC

In our prayers.

Mike, I am very sorry to hear of your loss, you are in our prayers.

Larry

Kevin Pulver

I'm sorry Mike

I remember you posting earlier about the gold-digger.
I'm so sorry about your Dad. We've only met through this forum, but you have a friend in Nebraska. I pray that you find strength, wisdom, hope and peace in Jesus throughout this terrible ordeal. The thought that, "life goes on" sure isn't much consolation at a time like this. Kevin in Kenesaw

Mike T., Swampeast MO

The RECENT Background

From a thread I began here on February 2, 2007 when asking for advice from people with greater and broader experience

From a Little More than 2 months ago

Family and I were extremely concerned then. Not even a quarter before she'd convinced him to sell his house, pollute his mind that the family was against her even though we'd never met and he's dead.

The bloody bra with price tag in the front seat is just too much. What normal woman EVER has a man buy her a bra?

Empire_2

My prayers are with you Mike

So sorry for you loss and I know this must be heavy on your heart. He is in God's hands now and I hope you can take a little comfort in that. Peace be with you and yours.....

Mike T.

Bernie Riddle_2

difficult moment

Mike: All the kind words here are a telling tribute, for you too are a very special person,so many of us here have learned from your many in depth posts.

Always remember you are in our thoughts and prayers I hope you find comfort in these difficult days ahead.

"The sun may be shining tomorow although it looks cloudy today"

"And the darkest hour is before the dawn"

Hope you find peace and tranquillity in this difficult time

Brendan.

wsdave

Prayers

So sorry to hear about your dad.

You are in our prayers. May the Lord be your guiding light and strength through these difficult times.

Sincerely,

Dave

Steve Gates_3

praying for you last night and today. Will continue tru the weeks ahead. Been there.

Jim Bennett

Mike...

I'm very sorry.

jim

Kevin_54

I'm sorry for your loss, our prayers our with you.

Unknown

Mike sorry I am a little late

posting concerning your loss. I will certainly pray that God will comfort you in this time of loss. It is difficult enough to lose a loved one, but then to have complications added in makes it difficult to find closure.

In my capacity as a Pastor I have helped many folks in similar situations. Feel free to contact me either by e-mail or call 401-437-0557. If nothing else I am a pretty good listner.

We love you brother so hang in there, as Dan said you are not alone we are here for you.

Joe_76

My condolences for you and your family

Joe Billow

TGO_54

Sorry

For your loss and all the troubles you are having.

You are not alone in the world, you have the wall and all the fine people who are here for you.

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Lyle C

Our prayers are with you Mike

I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad . Reach out to any of us, we are all bothers here . Lyle 978-957-8684

Lyle C

Our prayers are with you Mike

I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad . Reach out to any of us, we are all bothers here . Lyle 978-957-8684

Kevin_54

Sorry

Sorry for your loss, my family will pray for yours

Wayco Wayne_2

Mi

We will pray for you in this troubled time. So sorry for your loss. WW

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