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  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    > My dad was killed yesterday in a car accident.

    > His fault but at least the person in the other

    > vehicle was treated for minor injuries and

    > released from the ER.

    >

    > Mom died 3 years ago and

    > my grandma last year. I'm the only kid, and am

    > long divorced with no kids, so now I'm legally

    > "alone" in the world.

    >

    > Dad had become involved

    > with a woman who was their cleaning woman (my

    > age) for a short while before mom died. "Nothing

    > sexual" he told me, and I said, "Shouldn't it

    > be?" She has a live-in boyfriend as well as a

    > history of befriending vulnerable older men and

    > collecting when they die. She has never

    > contacted anyone in the family and has never

    > attended any family event.

    >

    > Dad sold his house

    > and was in the process of moving into a trailer

    > on her very rural property. Everyone was

    > concerned as he's somewhat "special", overly

    > kind-hearted and always had driving

    > problems--almost countless accidents but mainly

    > just minor low-speed accidents in town. Mom

    > never let him drive on the highway

    > alone.

    >

    > Entire family thought she was just

    > trying to take him for his money and nearly

    > everyone tried to keep him from making this

    > move.

    >

    > Finally spoke with her, told her of

    > dad's death. She was extremely emotional saying

    > "I begged him not to move here," then in the next

    > sentence said, "I loved him and wanted to take

    > care of him for the rest of his life."

    > Contradiction anyone?

    >

    > Told her I was going

    > to see dad's attorney and it was, "I don't want

    > anything." Attorney calls bank. Guess what?

    > They have a safety deposit box together and the

    > proceeds from the very recent sale of his house

    > are in an account with her as a beneficiary...

    > Dad finally admitted to his brother a few months

    > ago that he'd given her 30-40K. His checkbook

    > was in the car and a "to do" list in his wallet

    > and I can tell he'd been paying many of her

    > bills.

    >

    > The next few days are going to be

    > awful. I can tell that his closest family

    > members essentially blame this scheming woman for

    > his death. I won't go that far as Dad seemed

    > happy, but I also know how easy he was to

    > manipulate.



    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • David Sutton_6
    David Sutton_6 Member Posts: 1,072
    Very Sorry ,

    I'm very sorry to hear you lost your Dad, Mike.

    You got our prayers,



    David
  • kevin coppinger_4
    kevin coppinger_4 Member Posts: 2,124
    Mike...

    I can't imagine what you are going through...May God give you strength to get through this time.kpc

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  • DanHolohan
    DanHolohan Member, Moderator, Administrator Posts: 15,262
    Mike,

    you are not alone in the world. You have us.

    I'm sorry for your troubles.
    Retired and loving it.
  • Dan Foley
    Dan Foley Member Posts: 1,235
    Mike

    We are with you in our thoughts and prayers. - Dan Foley

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  • Glen
    Glen Member Posts: 855
    Mike -

    You have many friends here on the wall. My sincerest condolences.
  • Tony_23
    Tony_23 Member Posts: 1,033
    Dan's right

    You still have us. Sorry for your loss and for the preceding troubles as well.
  • hot_rod
    hot_rod Member Posts: 14,758
    So sorry

    call me if there is any way I can help, or just to chat.

    hot rod
    Bob "hot rod" Rohr
    trainer for Caleffi NA
    Living the hydronic dream
  • Joe Brix
    Joe Brix Member Posts: 626
    Mike,

    I am so sorry for your loss, and on top of it your having to deal with the "other woman." That sucks.

    I will pray for you and your family.

    Starch
  • Mad Dog!!!!!!!!
    Mad Dog!!!!!!!! Member Posts: 157
    Michael Please give me call when you need to talk

    This is horrible and I REALLY feel your pain. You and Dad will be in my prayers. Your Friend Mad Dog 516 322-2881
  • jackchips_2
    jackchips_2 Member Posts: 1,338
    Prayers

    for your Dad and especially you, Mike.

    May he rest in peace.

    Jack
  • Paul Rohrs_4
    Paul Rohrs_4 Member Posts: 466
    Thoughts and prayers with you

    Very sorry for your troubles.

    Regards,

    PR
  • John@Reliable_14
    [email protected]_14 Member Posts: 171


    Prayers



    for your Dad and especially you, Mike.
    [email protected]
  • Scott OB
    Scott OB Member Posts: 22
    Prayers

    Dan is right you have all your friends at The Wall.I feel your sorrow.My dad just went through a nasty settlement with a lady he was not married to,but together for 9 years.Now he is dating his "cleaning lady".I feel your pain.
    Sincerly,
    Scott
  • Steve Ebels_3
    Steve Ebels_3 Member Posts: 1,290
    You got 'em Mike

    It seems as though sometimes, a lot of things in life don't make sense or are unfair. I'll be asking for strength, wisdom and patience in my prayers for you during your time of sorrow my friend.

    Let me paraphrase a verse from the Bible that may apply here, as it seems you've lost a chunk of your inheritance along with your father.

    "Don't store up treasures for yourself in this world, where moth and rust, (and lecherous friends {my words}) consume, instead lay up your treasures in heaven, where they last forever."
  • Mike...

    Our condolences on your loss.

    ME
  • BillW@honeywell
    [email protected] Member Posts: 1,099
    Sorry for your loss..

    Losing your Dad is tough enough without the added problems with this gold digger he was involved with. Time & prayer heal all wounds, take your time and remember the good times. May he rest in peace.
  • Brad White_9
    Brad White_9 Member Posts: 2,440
    Oh, Mike...

    What a burden is that to carry... So much on both sides of the boundary between this earth and the next. Take heart- my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Take it easy and please do not let the extreme emotions get in the way of your safety. Seriously, even driving itself could be dangerous if your mind and emotions are elsewhere for even a moment.
  • John R. Hall
    John R. Hall Member Posts: 2,246
    Mike

    My deepest sympathies for your loss. He is with our Lord now.
  • ALH_4
    ALH_4 Member Posts: 1,790
    Loss

    You are in my prayers, Mike. You are not alone. I hope she does the right thing.
  • bobbyg_2
    bobbyg_2 Member Posts: 139


    Mike you and your father are in my prayers. God bless.
    So sorry for your loss.


  • Sorry for your loss Mike, I'll keep you both in my prayers.
  • Ruthe Jubinville_2
    Ruthe Jubinville_2 Member Posts: 674
    Peace to You

    You and your Dad are in my thoughts and prayers. ...
    Ruthe
  • rb_6
    rb_6 Member Posts: 222


    Mike,
    Thoughts and prayers for you and yours…anything I can do let me know.
    RB
  • Your Dad

    Sorry for your troubles, Mike.

    I'm sure you are left with many memories of all the good times you had with him.
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