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My Brother,,,,,

I just found-out has pancreatic- cancer(instant death sentence),,, we have not spoken for about 6yrs.(family reasons),,,, what a <em>crappy reason</em>,,, we are only 4 yrs. apart,, and regret is filling my mind.



I apologize if my mood has been distaste-ful. 

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  • Al Letellier_21
    Al Letellier_21 Member Posts: 402
    Your brother

    Sorry to hear the news. We will keep him in our thoughts and prayers. Time to put the last 6 years aside and make things right. It will do your soul good...and his
  • Rich Kontny_3
    Rich Kontny_3 Member Posts: 562
    Say a prayer

      I will include your brother and his family in my prayers. My older brother had quadruple bypass surgery two weeks ago, I just spoke with him today and he is weak but better. Bury the the hatchet if you can Dave.
  • Jean-David Beyer
    Jean-David Beyer Member Posts: 2,666
    I am sorry to hear that.

    My uncle's wife had it too. They misdiagnosed it for over a year, confusing it with back trouble. It is really tough to deal with something like this.



    As another person remarked, time to forgive; it will help both of you.
  • nicholas bonham-carter
    nicholas bonham-carter Member Posts: 8,578
    i am sure you have been preoccupied

    thanks for letting us know, you will be in all of our thoughts. i am sure this news is hard to bear.  please let your brother know that we also are thinking of him as well.--nbc
  • DanHolohan
    DanHolohan Member, Moderator, Administrator Posts: 16,598
    Sorry, Dave.

    I hope you'll make the most of the days ahead.  
    Retired and loving it.
  • Mark Eatherton
    Mark Eatherton Member Posts: 5,858
    Sorry to hear that Dave...

    Our thoughts will be with you and yourn.



    Still time to remember the good times, and forget the past.



    ME

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  • Jim Bennett
    Jim Bennett Member Posts: 607
    Be Strong Dave.....

    Don't let regret eat you up now. The past is the past. Put it behind you and live for each day.



    We're here for you friend,



    Jim

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  • MikeyB
    MikeyB Member Posts: 696
    Brother

    Our prayers and thoughts are with you
  • Robert O'Brien
    Robert O'Brien Member Posts: 3,562
    Very Sorry

    to hear this.Thoughts and prayers are with you,hang in there!
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  • EricAune
    EricAune Member Posts: 432
    Prayers are with you and your family

    This is an opportunity to use the time ahead to strengthen your relationship.  He will need your support.  You have ours.

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  • RobLC
    RobLC Member Posts: 93
    Give your brother something to take home...

    You said yourself, "crappy reason," - -  Take the high road and let him know you love him.  I found it helps you live with yourself when they're gone. 



    Always have room for one more in our prayers.



    Thank you for the times you answered any of my questions.
  • Alan R. Mercurio_3
    Alan R. Mercurio_3 Member Posts: 1,624
    Prayers

    Dave my prayers are with you, your brother and loved ones.

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