Something on my mind

Unknown

"If tomorrow never comes," that is a great thought.

Unknown

I am concerned

about many of those who frequent this site. As a man of prayer I am often prompted to pray for many of you. Now do not get nervous I am not going to start preaching to you. I am concerned that these are very stressful times. Often in my classes I tell my students make sure in your daily routine you take time to take breaks and relax. Many who have been to my classes know I talk about the "McElwain Rules" one of which is the requirement to take 4 breaks a day. I emphasize this in my classes as related to being able to diagnose most gas/circuitry problems in 20 minutes or less. This will insure your mental and physical well being. A popular police show back a few years ago the officer used to say "now be careful out there", not a bad idea.

With the increase in costs of fuel, materials, rents etc we all are being pressed and pushed to the limit. I thank God for folks who recently rallied to encourage me when business was slow. Dan was one of those, he went out of his way to help me out with this site and posting my training information and allowing me to have a spot to answer questions here and I am very thankful for his help. I also want to thank Alan Mecurio, Matt "Mad Dog" Sweeney, Scott Milne, Frank "Steamhead" Wilsey and George Lanthier along with many others for their encouragement and concern along with others. It pays to have friends.

My other concern is family and relationships. We are often encouraged here by our host to "hug your kids". My kids are in their forties now but we still are very affectionate with one another, it is so important to know you are loved. Of course the grandkids get hugs and kisses all the time. But I would like to ask you here today have you hugged your wife/husband today? We all tend to get caught up in the daily routine and forget to say to one another how much we love them. Take time to kindle afresh that fire that once burned between you.

Last of all tell people around you who work with you or serve you how much you appreciate them.

It is too late when you stand looking down into a coffin and say what a great guy he was or she was really a wonderful person. Say it to them now while they are alive.

Remember I love you all and I am praying for you every day.

J.C.A._3

Thanks Tim.

I find myself not following those rules too often lately, and it all catches up at once leading to setbacks.

I hate having too much on my mind at 1 time, but that seems to be the way I'm wired.I try to tell the important folks in my life that I love them...but too often...I didn't say it aloud. Dopey me!

I'm going to start doing as you suggested...and take my breaks. The guys I work with don't know how I keep working while they take theirs...but it's a focus thing for me. Maybe the time outs will help.

Thanks for the heads up. I forget all too often. Chris

Kevin O. Pulver_2

A little preaching wouldn't hurt us either Tim!

Your advice is good. Things seem so overwhelming sometimes, but it always helps me to think,
"In one hundred years, what's it gonna matter?"
In other words, the problem in front of us is often not as significant as we think. Kevin

Toddid Goldsmith's

If tommorrow never comes!

Garth Brookes does a song "If tommorrow never comes" Terri and I were married for 32+ years. Terri passed away Aug. 27-07.I fight with the thought, Did I try in every way, to show her every day, just how much I care? I'm afraid I didn't. Tell that someone that you love, just what your thinking of, 'cause suppose tommorrow never comes' 'Do IT' God Bless!!!

Timco

Thanks for the basics reminder, Tim. I usually have a pepsi for lunch as I cannot bring myself to stop for food...even 7-11. I keep a 12er in the back of the truck. I appreciate the prayers, and likewise pray for my friends and families as well. I am certain it helps, and attend church every week...even while on vacation. I have grown to like it more than I did as a kid. Too often lately I have relied on Ambien to sleep as dollar signs and feet of pipe and bids out do not allow me to fall asleep, and I keep telling myself it is hurting me. There is nothing good on late-night TV I can assure you all!

Tim

hvacfreak

regret is a hard pillow

..to sleep on. My father passed away while him and I were on bad terms ( due to other people's influences ). Either way , if I had it to do again , I would lie and say it was all my fault to have a peaceful closing with him . The OP ( original poster ) is correct in his advice. As far as the work , I wish I worked with people of an integrity that I could speak with on this level. But , I went for the high dollar...and that's what I got ( another discussion for sure ). Place value on ANY " proven "good person that you meet in life...I agree with that. - M

Lyle C

Thanks Tim

Truer Words are seldom spoken . My helper for the past 3 years has been my Wife . With work we only have one rule we stick to "Work is work, Home is home. On brakes ,lunch or away from work we to not discuss work.All my trusted customers have my cell and I carry it during my off hours.When a call comes in if I do not have to go out , it's as short as possible and I'll call back tomorrow. Family First, and as my mother always said bring me my flowers while I'm alive.

Lyle C

Thanks Tim

Truer Words are seldom spoken . My helper for the past 3 years has been my Wife . With work we only have one rule we stick to "Work is work, Home is home. On brakes ,lunch or away from work we do not discuss work. All my trusted customers have my cell and I carry it during my off hours.When a call comes in if I do not have to go out , it's as short as possible and I'll call back tomorrow. Family First, and as my mother always said bring me my flowers while I'm alive.

Empire_2

Truly words of wisdom...

Sometimes we all get caught up in the so called "Rat Race" and forget that we are only human. It seems more common place to ridicule one's integrity that to praise it. "Great Job" can lift anyone's spirit and goes a long way to quality production whether it be work or family life. Peace to all and when you come to a fork in the road, take it. You can always turn around when you find you are going the wrong way!!!

Mike T.

Ruthe Jubinville_2

a second chance

After Jerry got a second chance at life in 1998 we did ao many things in the next 9 years that he had always wanted to but never took the time off to do. ISH twice, Wetstocks, Oil Heat cares events and anything else he wanted to do or go to. "I love you" was a part of our daily language. Great advice Tim. Thank you for your thoughts. Keep us all on track

ScottMP

Thanks Tim

for bringing this up. I have what many would consider a non-traditional family pattern. Children late in life. But as I look at it, it works well because my business is at a point where its been built and we have work. I am not out late anymore, leaving partys, holidays or family events. That allows me to see my children, go to thier school events and actaully take a vacation.

So many here are on the work treadmill and life pass's by sooo quickly.

Listen to Tim and try as hard as you can to Live Life.

Scott

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Unknown

As I am viewing

all the postings about Wetstock it seems that the good time had by all is a direct reflection of just what I posted here.

I missed the Wetstock to attend a awards ceremony for my grandson who is graduating from architectural School next month. he won an award for one of his designs.

Unknown

As I am viewing

all the postings about Wetstock it seems that the good time had by all is a direct reflection of just what I posted here.

I missed the Wetstock to attend a awards ceremony for my grandson who is graduating from architectural School next month. he won an award for one of his designs.

Steamhead (in transit)

Thanks Tim

glad to help, and good to see you're doing well. Not sure what we'd do without you.

BTW, Dan has let it be known there will be a Wetstock in 2010.

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Pinball

Wow! I have been listening to that song all week! As most of you know. It can and does happen to anybody and everybody!
Tell them you love them Now! it is alot easier than later.
Thank you Tim for the reminder that we all need.

Al

Rich Kontny_3

Tim

You don't need to apologize for being a Christian. I at age 54 started to go to morning mass at "Holy Hill" which is on my way to work in Milwaukee. It is just a great way to pause, reflect, be thankful for our blessings and to practice the main exercise of Christianity "forgiveness"

Some of the posts here need to realize that one must also forgive themselves. Seems to me the "Lord's Prayer" does a good job of addressing that. Times are indeed tough but sometimes that brings people closer. Faith is a great way to cope no matter which faith it is the key is to participate and find out the benefits.

God Bless all !

Unknown

I am after all

from Pennsylvania (born in the southwestern part) you know "guns and religion". Just kidding as I now live in liberal land here in New England.

It is my hearts desire and has been since my conversion to Jesus Christ in 1970 when I was born again, through my years as a Pastor (17 years) to try to help people to see how wonderful life can be when God, Family and Friends are a part of your everyday life. Money is not our God, and actually the scripture is often misquoted "that money is the root of all evil", the good book actually says "the LOVE of money is the root of all evil."

I often say what causes most men to fall is one of three things, THE GOLD, THE GIRLS OR THE GLORY.

Unknown

glad you took the time

to come out to Wetstock. It was truly a pleasure to meet and get to know you a little.

wheels

Rich Kontny_3

Would

Like to meet you face to face some day Tim,I am sure we would have a lot in common. With five kids and six grandlittle ones I am truly blessed. I have been witness
to several miracles in my life and I can never give back enough, yet I can humble myself enough to give thanks.

Rich K.